Which is exactly why different things exist for us to enjoy. As they say, there's an ass for every chair. There's also a fetish for every one of us... or maybe more.

Have you ever come across my full bio I wrote? It explains in detail, why I like to be bound and punished. Neither are about the pain. The pain only solidifies my helplessness, at which point, I'm more relaxed then anything.

I can get you a link, if you ever want to see it. It's outside of Medium, but I realize, I should make it a Medium story.